Afraid For My Health In Fertility After 40

afraid for my health in fertility after 40

Afraid For My Health In Fertility After 40  

Does being 'afraid for my health in fertility after 40' sound familiar? Perhaps you are dealing with other health issues or noticing changes in your body that trigger fear. Good to know that there are ways to support your health in fertility after 40.

This audio was inspired by a conversation with a wonderful member of our tribe who shared that she was fearful about her physical health. I decided to create a post on this because it's a topic that comes up for many women trying to have a baby after 40 and 50.

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Patriarchal Fear

The way I'd like to address 'afraid for my health in fertility after 40' is to remind you, first of all, of the following:

We have been conditioned in patriarchy to trust the mental, to trust the mind, and to distrust the body. The mental world, which represents the masculine, has been perceived as far superior to the body - which represents the feminine.



What I hear in this share is an echo of the underlying mindset we've been submerged in on the planet - which is a fear of the feminine and a fear that we won't be able to control her!

In addition, this patriarchal fear becomes more pronounced for women over the age of 40 because in patriarchy, a woman's perceived value drops considerably at this point.

So be aware that being 'afraid for my health in fertility after 40' is a product of these two patriarchal biases. As a result, this feeling is common indeed. But that does not mean that it is tapped into the truth about your health or co-creative power. Especially if you are planning to have a baby after 40 or after 50.

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Engaging The Feminine™

Then secondly, in order to transform this, I would like to guide you do draw from the Form step of my Feminine Engagement Method™. The Form step is about forming or creating a new story around 'afraid for my health in fertility after 40'. One that is not limited to the patriarchal notions that have informed it.

Intend instead to Form a new relationship with your body and a new relationship with your feminine. And intend to connect with the deep wisdom of your body in a way that allows it to be vital and strong for you.

Instead of fearing that it will break down, won't work or won't be productive (as patriarchy would have us feel), trust that your body is guiding you into creating the very best life for you as a woman and a mother now.

And when it seems to be calling you in a different direction (e.g. illness), decide to allow that to guide you back to your creative power and radiant, fertile health.

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Feminine Wisdom

Whenever fear around your health in fertility after 40 comes up, remember the context in which that has arisen. In a patriarchal world that fears the feminine and the physical body and values youth.

Recall also that you are part of a collective of women birthing something much more beautiful, more balanced and more honest on the planet. In your fertility journey and your journey as a woman. 

And that your gorgeous physical body, in all its expressions, is actually guiding you into co-creating that now. I'm inviting you to play around with that idea and see what comes up for you and would love to hear your comments below.


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